The things that get us annoyed, irritated and angry at other people really must be things we see in ourselves and don’t like. I’m so aware of how critical I am of myself, for the most part I’ve learned to try not use that same kind of judgment or criticism in others but it’s definitely not perfect. I’m going test myself, be even more aware of when I get irritated or get that feeling of judgment and try to use it as a mirror, to see if that thing I’m judging in someone else is something I do myself. If it is, I’m going to have to have more compassion, forgiveness and grace for myself. I think that’s the only way to not create that same judgment in others.
