Speaking of words and actions, here’s another diagnosis. Speaking out your dreams, visions, big or small, convincing someone this is who you want to become, who you will become, because earnings someone’s else’s trust is enough. They’re belief in you is like a drug that can get you through another day of doubt, insecurity and confusion. But you have no idea how you’re going to deliver, how you’re going to do what you say. But it’s comforting knowing someone might see you that way but the comfort breeds complacency.
Stop talking. Don’t speak out your dreams and visions to others. Don’t share it with anyone else. Most of the times they won’t believe you. They’ll think you’re foolish. They’ll judge you, mock you, talk behind your back. They think you can’t do it. But most of the times they’re jealous. Your dreams make them feel insecure, afraid for you, afraid of you, afraid for themselves.
But that’s not the reason why. Keep your dreams to yourself, keep it locked up inside, create a pent up energy, it will be your fuel, it will be your engine. Keep it locked up inside so that it has no where else to go but come out of you, into reality. Because dreams and visions are like a small flame and when you say it out loud, the flame goes out. You have to keep the small flame going for a long time, protect it, grow it, sustain it, build it into a bigger flame, bigger fire, until it’s an inferno. That inferno is the fuel for your dream. When it becomes so hot, so powerful no matter what others think, even no matter what you think, the dream is compelled into reality.
But be careful, watchful, vigilant, real dreams are ways in which we bring a miracle into the world, that is a point of connection and love into reality. Real dreams do not cause destruction, disconnect, condemnation, judgment, separation, rejection.