How many times have you had this revelation? The thing about other people you get annoyed, irritated, angry or critical at, you do the same thing. Maybe not in the same specific context but it’s rooted in the same mindset, thought process and attitude. I think we tend to react to things that subconsciously we dislike or are judgmental about ourselves. But as long as we focus the judgment outward, we can hide the inward judgment. Disguise it as annoyance, irritation or even righteous indignation.
When you free others from judgment, you can see clearer the judgment you put on yourself. Free yourself from judgment. Freeing others from judgment is freeing yourself from judgment.
Grace is freedom.