The “All for One” people don’t see things the way “One for All” people do. They are almost polar opposites. They come at solutions with a completely different mindset, strategy, guiding principle and moral value. To the point they villainize each other.
“All for One” people see “One for All” people as not compassionate, cold, selfish people that only care about themselves and results, and have no concern about other people’s struggles. “One for All” people see “All for One” people as irrational, soft people that only care about others people’s feelings to make decisions which results in subjectivity and relativism but don’t actually know how to implement meaningful change.
While we’re so busy destroying and flaming each other because each side believes they only way is their way, the real secret, the real super power is knowing that we need both, we need each other. We cannot operate as a society, community, family without each other’s way of seeing things. Each side needs to value and respect the other side’s viewpoint, knowing that it’s a blindspot on their own side. Then using the other side’s viewpoint as a compass and trying to create a solution using their own strengths to get to the same place together. Everyone agrees, that people need help and support but they also need to take responsibility and ownership. But we become polarized when we think it’s either/or and there is only one way.