For an introvert the outer world is scary. Maybe it’s actual physical threats, harm or pain. Maybe it’s failure, embarrassment, ridicule, inadequacy. Maybe it’s verbal, social, relational, expectations, competition.
For the extrovert the inner world is scary. Maybe it’s that inner-voice of doubt, fear, insecurity. Maybe it’s the possibility of being wrong. Maybe it’s the idea of having to change. Maybe it’s having to re-evaluate, question or be honest with life-long held beliefs, thoughts and principles.
The introvert and extrovert gravitates toward each other’s opposite spectrum. The introvert is more comfortable with facing, dealing with and trying to figure out their internal struggles. The extrovert is more comfortable with facing and overcoming external challenges and physical adversity.
An introvert feels more in control of themselves and the environment in the inner world. An extrovert feels more in control and at ease in the external world. An introvert might feel more confident with the ability to change themselves. An extrovert might feel more confident in being able to affect or change their environment. An introvert might be more aware of how they’re feeling and presence in a social setting. An extrovert might be more aware of the energy and presence of others in a group setting.
Introverted or extroverted, each are a strength, each is a gift to how to see the world, others and ourselves. We can and should learn from each other.