Anyone and everyone can and will say something that will annoy you, get under your skin or trigger you. If you keep clashing at that frequency, reacting, getting defensive, justifying yourself, you’ll be stuck at that frequency. If you look around, you might be the only reacting, because everyone has a different frequency they react to. But even if there were more people or population reacting the same way, it doesn’t matter. It’s the same thing – being stuck in that frequency.
The real mission isn’t to get someone else to change their frequency, to get them to stop saying things that are triggering but to change your frequency. That is not so much changing your perspective but rise above the frequency – operate, think, speak and act on a different wavelength. Make your frequency more perfect, more indestructible, more invincible wavelength with truth, conviction, fearlessness and love. When you react, when you give them that power, you’re essentially conforming to their perceptions, to their judgment their fear, their insecurities.
Why would a tall person get defensive if someone called them short. Why would someone feel like they need to justify themselves if someone calls them “lazy” if they put in good time and effort (or fill in the blanks with anything).
If you know your identity, confident in it and conviction and it is truly what you believe, there really is no reason to react, your mistakenly taking the mission as changing someone else’s perspective when the job is to become more secure, seek the truth of your identity and manifest a state of more absolute fearlessness and love.